How to Control Negativity

What is Negativity? just a feeling, or more than that? Let us find out more about it.

Let's create a scenario. Ask 10 people about your ideal career and find out answers. You will definitely find deviations in replies. Some will directly put their ideas on you. Some will ask your inputs such as interests, wish. Some may tell you to follow what they have already tested.

Some of them may motivate you to get your dreams while some may discourage you like you are good for nothing. Here comes the negativity. Ignoring the fact that you are capable of shaping your own life is the point where negativity starts.

There are only two sources of negativity -  one is inside you and another is from people or circumstances surrounding you.

Negativity comes due to lack of confidence.  You soaked all the negativity inside because you missed to understand your capabilities.

Now, what to do.

Here is the simple solution. Create an imaginary wall between your ears and mind and allow only those lines to pass which qualifies to be heard. You are not a garbage bin indeed! so keep all the garbage outside. And always have faith in your capabilities.

Do a commitment to yourself every day you wake up that you will listen to yourself only because you can better decide for yourself what is better and what is not.

You have to be consistently positive about you. If still, you feel down or looking for moral support then talk to yourself first.

Still, wish to share something to me. Write it down to me here.

Yours,
R 

A Backward Step

Coming back is not easy!
Coming back needs more courage!
Travelling old paths has never been sounded well!
One need to show hard guts to step backward in life!

My Little Star

No matter where you are;

You will always be my star..

I may not be with you always;

Be with me at par

No matter near or far;

You will always be my star..

R

Trust

You come to me

Entered my life

Ways around me;

Those who passes by my soul

I admired,

Felt like the sovereign

Oneday somehow

I woke up

Looking for you;

My ways are alone

Breathless;

Things changed;

I looked for

Ways around you;

To enter your soul!

To find my soul!

Scary!! I found;

All doors closed

No soul there;

Fire, everywhere;

Ghosh!! I cried,

‘Where are you?’

Unanswered, was on my way back

Met someone like orphan,

Trust, it whispered.

R

Sheets of My Life

Think about last night between the sheets..Was it horrible? Or you found some witty things around?

These sheets are the best fellow you have.  You can cry with them, they will be there to hold your tears.  You wish to not to share your salty feelings with anybody, they will hide you.  Happiness, joy, sorrow, calm, anger and whatsoever your mood is, sheets will be with you to hide or to show.

You agree to accept it or not, but this is the only one thing, who will never leave you.  It will be there when you were in death bed.  Your last journey will not be completed without it.

Remember the day, when you were a new born baby, you were wrapped around with a sheet.  You take it seriously or not but this is the only thing you've who will be with you when all your relatives say good bye to you.  It will get burnt with you.

R

Inside You

Sometimes, you feel hurt because the person inside you does not support you.  Have you ever thought of why this situation occurs?  The only reason behind is, decisions taken from heart and decisions taken from mind goes in two different directions; sometimes in opposite directions rather.

There is no fixed rule to take on and decide whom to follow.  Every single time “Listen to your heart” may also not work.  The best solution to such issue is to give yourself sometime to look inside and reach to the wise decision.

Uncertainty

Uncertainty is the most beautiful thing that god created in our mind, if one understands the basic idea of god behind this then one can enjoy...... otherwise one has to suffer.

R